have you guys feel very disapointed with your relationship? unless you're anti socials then most problably the answer would be yes. there's this one specific situation that happens to me very often lately.to explain that situation to you, i would ask questions too. have you ever sulk to your partner? then if you're texting her/him, you would probably stop right? then you expect your partner to call you or sumthng because you havent been replying to her/him. its true that it involves sometimes (most of the times sbenanye) petty stuffs, but you really expect them to do so. if you have been through the same situation, then welcome to the club.
everytime this situation happens to me, there will be awkward silence from my phone. because it rings ALL the time because of the endless text messaging. so if you and your partner text frequently, whenever either one stops, there must be somethning wrong right? so its just simple logic that sometimes save relationships. because even petty stuffs repeated again and again and again can leave a very deep scar. because if the same problem persists again and again, people would get bored of the same problems, then they will thnk that they've had enough. this is where somethng bad will happen. so to me, the essential in a relationship is communication.
my advice to lovers out there (also to myself la), if you sense somethng is wrong, communicate it with your partner. if they did not reply to ur texts, friggin call them. address them by asking them what's the problem and how can we solve it. because sometimes, people dont want solutions, they just want you to address it and to give them the feeling that the problem is being shared. especially with your partner.
conlclusion :
- communication
- address problems
- try to find a way to create a win-win situation
- dont ignore them by using the excuse of waiting for that someone to cool down because as long as the problem aren't addressed, he/she will NEVER cool down
cheers =D
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